mass rewrite of find parameters to cross-platform style

Fixes #9044, close #9667. Thanks to @taku0 for suggesting this solution.
Now we have no modes starting with `/` or `+`.

Rewrite the `-perm` parameters of find:
 - completely safe: rewrite `/0100` and `+100` to `-0100`,
 - slightly semantics-changing: rewrite `+111` to `-0100`.
I cross-verified the `find` manual pages for Linux, Darwin, FreeBSD.