treewide: Get rid of all uses of crossConfig

The hack of using `crossConfig` to enforce stricter handling of
dependencies is replaced with a dedicated `strictDeps` for that purpose.
(Experience has shown that my punning was a terrible idea that made more
difficult and embarrising to teach teach.)

Now that is is clear, a few packages now use `strictDeps`, to fix
various bugs:

 - bintools-wrapper and cc-wrapper